We arrived in Cincinnati about a week ago and are living in corporate housing. The apartment is significantly smaller than our apartment in Jersey City but we are adjusting. We know we won’t be in this particular apartment forever so we are trying to remain as un-grumpy about it as possible. The biggest adjustment for me is there is no digital cable at the apartment. Yes, you heard me, no digital cable…which means no DVR! Depending on how well you know me, you understand this is a HUGE travesty in my life. I make my living on television and have long been the biggest DVR pusher there is…needless to say, I am currently in a period of mourning.
(First night in Cincinnati…Ben is his Jumperoo)
Ben did well on the drive out here. We left on a Thursday night and drove all the way to the Pennsylvania border. After a long debate over which hotel chain would be acceptable for me to stay in, we ended up in a Hampton in in Youngstown Ohio. (although I realize I have now not painted the best picture of myself in the previous two paragraphs, hotels and television are two things I take very seriously. My forever travel partner Caitlin Tobin can attest to this…) Ben slept the whole way except for a dinner break for all of us which turned unfortunate for Josh as he got stuck changing a VERY poopy diaper in the men’s bathroom with virtually no counter. Ben wasn’t phased though and promptly returned to sleep straight through the night. We got up the next day and finished our journey into Cincinnati.
Josh’s job is going well. He only works with two other guys directly and this has given him the opportunity to become a part of the team rather quickly and start making a difference. He has some late night but on the other nights he gets home around 630ish which is much better hours than NYC. He also doesn’t go in until 730a rather than his previous 630a. There is virtually no traffic so I drop him off downtown about half the week and he drives himself in our rental car the rest of the time.
I have been taking a boot camp class at 530-630a every morning. It has been great thus far although I haven’t been feeling up to it for the last two days so I need to catch up. Ben and I both have a mild cold. I am feeling pretty run down and can’t figure out if he feels the same way. He was pretty fussy over the weekend but back to his normal happy self as of yesterday. (he is currently napping on the couch next to me) I also have been taking a Mommy and Me Yoga class on Tuesdays and met some other mommies today who I ended up getting brunch with. Sooo, slowly trying to make some friends but it always takes time.
Ben visited the pediatrician right before we left and was 11lbs 12 oz. I am getting a bit concerned about his strength as he still isn’t holding his own head up while on his tummy. I think we may need to start to work with some specialists (PT and OT as well as speech which helps with eating). We had not set anything up in NJ because he was too young but now is about the time when he should be hitting some mile stones that he isn’t. He also doesn’t roll over but can roll on his side if TV is an incentive (see! definitely my child!). He can’t sit up but can stand quite well while holding my hands. I just think he needs some help with core strength and that will come with the specialists. We set up a new pediatrician appointment for next Thursday so hopefully they can point us in the right direction.
(Ben with his monkey @ 7months)
What Ben does do though is smile a ton, he also laughs hysterically at me (not so much as Josh but Josh tends to not do as many faces/voices as I do). He talks up a storm and always wants to be standing. He still wiggles like crazy and LOVES diaper changes. Its when I can usually make him laugh the most.
I know we have been slow in the updates of late…I promise I will get better about this. Keep up your comments…it makes me feel like people are actually reading and keeping up with us!
PS. Ben FINALLY fits in his Red Sox hat…whoo hoo!